For you dear I was born

I am a Nick Cave fan. The first song I recall hearing was the 15 minute ‘Babe I’m on Fire’ – an epic love song (to himself?) that can, like much of Cave’s work, polarise opinion on him. the video to the song just makes me laugh and I regularly play it on a Friday… Continue reading For you dear I was born

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I Lost Myself

In a recent post I referred to the death of my mother and my subsequent mourning as saying something of the loss I felt in me. Yes the subject of my grief has gone and there is an undoubted sadness to that but the more intense feelings were more to do with the absence of part of my person.… Continue reading I Lost Myself

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There’s a Ghost in My House

I have been having an on-off debate with my son Tom on the existence of ghosts. He insists “there’s no such thing” and I do have some sympathy with that argument if we are referring to apparitions, I am sceptical of alledged sightings and would prefer to attribute such phenomena to some individual or collective… Continue reading There’s a Ghost in My House

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Death at One’s Elbow

With the loss of my parents, that whole strata – the unique relationship (good and bad) – has gone and with it a perspective on my life that no one else has, had or can have, has gone.All relationships offer some insight into our lives, into who we are. Some can be duplicated to an extent… Continue reading Death at One’s Elbow

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Art for Art’s Sake

Mrs Driver and I had a discussion on our way home from watching the Fun Lovin’ Criminals last night. It started out as the usual ‘the world is a little bit/lot fucked up…’, generally something we agree on, however we diverged when it came to what’s to be done about it.I have been thinking a… Continue reading Art for Art’s Sake

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